Why Do I Do This To Myself?
May. 6th, 2018 04:34 pmNote to self: just because someone on the internet brings up ace stuff and asserts there are no people who are aromantic but not asexual doesn't mean you have to correct them by pointing out that you exist. Nothing good ever comes of it. But people who acknowledge that people can feel romantic attraction without feeling sexual attraction exist but cannot get their heads around the reverse continue to confuse me.
(Look, I am not saying that the split attraction model is perfect, just that explains the experience of a whole lot of people, including me, so I am going to keep on using it to model my own experience. Other people can do whatever.)
We just got to my least favourite Aromantic Bingo square: aren't aro people just sociopaths? And I can never leave that one alone. Because obviously romantic love is the only way to tell you're capable of empathy, donchaknow. Love for family and friends and cats doesn't count!
Other bingo squares include:
( Look, I am just in a ranting mood this afternoon, feel free to skip. )
(Look, I am not saying that the split attraction model is perfect, just that explains the experience of a whole lot of people, including me, so I am going to keep on using it to model my own experience. Other people can do whatever.)
We just got to my least favourite Aromantic Bingo square: aren't aro people just sociopaths? And I can never leave that one alone. Because obviously romantic love is the only way to tell you're capable of empathy, donchaknow. Love for family and friends and cats doesn't count!
Other bingo squares include: